19. Finding Our True Self - The Ultimate Love

No matter where you are in your life, wether you're 40 years old, 20 or 60, we are in continuous evolvement of our true self and our path to accomplishing who we were put in this planet to be.

I am now 40 years old myself and life has just passed before my eyes.

I have lived more than many, but also less than others.

These events have allowed me to become the person I am today. I found my true self, my true meaning and ultimately I've found my true love... ME.

No one else can or should be prioritized before you.

We tend to let other relationships come before the one with ourself, but you shouldn't never let that happen. By doing so, you create a vulnerability in the possibility that this person could drop you at any moment, even if things are going good between then 2 of you. You should have the control on the love for yourself and make sure that it comes before anything else. You can better love others if you love and care for yourself.

It wasn't without mental toughness that I conquered some hard life events. Finding my inner love for myself took a lot of work. With outside help and therapy, Love from my family and friends and relearning who I am and what I want and need in this lifetime.

It wasn't without crumbling into a million pieces, hundreds of time, that I was able to rebuild myself, into a stronger version of me every step of the way. It wasn't easy, nothing worth doing is easy. The hardest was always believing I was worth it and deserved the best. You should always come back down to the basics. Which is exactly that... You deserve the best.

So what is the best for you? What are your needs? What is your value? What are your desires?

I decided to come on this planet to make a difference. It is the same for everyone, but it's not always easy to breakthrough that WHAT. But you can! You are worth it.

My coaches used to say:

"Mind Over Matter"

"Mental Toughness"

My mom used to say:

"You're the best, you can do it"

"I love you no matter what"

" You've got this"

"I'm lucky to have you in my life"

My friends used to say:

"You're awesome"

"You're so amazing"

"I'm lucky to have you"

My partner used to say:

"I love you"

"I'm here for you"

"It's ok, it'll be ok"

Let me be your coach, your mom, your friend and partner and hear those things from me, if no one else have told you these before, know they are true for you too!

One step at a time. One day at a time. It might take you a lifetime to get there, but don't give up on the one sigle most important person in your life. "YOU"!

The Ultimate Love awaits!